These videos can provide information and guidance that will help both partners in a neurodiverse relationship.

GLOSSARY

ASPERGER'S FROM THE INSIDE:

Are We a Good Fit? How To Tell if You Are Right for Each Other.   Aspergers from the Inside. October 23, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nH6EqJ4E3RY

 

Why Are Relationships So Difficult? (yet still so important to autistic people).  Aspergers from the Inside.  August 21, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjNdW4Lrk1I

 

Help!  I love an Aspie (How to love someone with Aspergers). Aspergers from the Inside, March 1, 2019.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vry6Z-JH-hk

 

How to Date an Aspie. Aspergers from the Inside, July 13, 2018.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9lvFhArC_E

JODI CARLTON:

How to make sense of your Autism Spectrum Relationship. Jodi Carlton- November 12, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4gCbztcyJA

 

5 signs your partner may have Autism or Aspergers.  Jodi Carlton-April 2, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSARFAsN4yg

 

How to Know if Someone With Asperger's Loves You. Jodi Carlton-February 13, 2017.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQ0vEae1j9A

MARRIED TO AN ASPHOLE:

Married to an Asphole-Video Podcast-Episode 1-February 7, 2018.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a3yhM7L6SJE

 

Married to an Asphole-Episode 2- Taking Responsibility-August 31, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M5qwQ4_x3JI

 

Married to an Asphole-Episode 3-Challenges-December 29, 2019.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49qkfUZm09o

 

Married to an Asphole-Episode 6-Intimacy-December 30, 2019.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VaqqnVpzZ0

Married to an Asphole-Episode 7-Sensory Impact-January 1, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuLx44Iggkk

 

Married to an Asphole-I Love You So Much-February 25, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1LJV61Op08

 

Married to an Asphole-Breathe & Break.  March 3, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEMwt7YGFzg

 

Married to an Asphole- Love and Selflessness.  March 10, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qa2VfOVEsg4

 

Married to an Asphole-Our Secret Sauce.  March 17, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arz7zjf__Pw

 

Married to an Asphole-Empathy vs Apathy vs Sympathy. March 24, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Ux7mecw00A

 

Married to an Asphole-Getting Real at 3am-August 30, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ml9xwpzqq5A

MARK HUTTEN:

The Bad News and the Good News about Emotional Reciprocity: Message to Neurotypical Spouses. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.  November 19, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8uw9xc3iL8

 

Conflict and Score Keeping in the Neurodiverse Marriage- (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.  November 10, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hw9bmoUWTqM

 

What You're NOT-Message to Men with ASD. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.

November 7, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iRydWn2dZw

 

It's About the “Team”-Not About You Specifically: Advice for ASD Spouses- (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. November 6, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WoLZSRRYTE

 

Why Your ASD Partner Fears Difficult Conversations About Relationship Problems: Tips for NT's-(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.  October 15, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDV9BvJvJ9s

 

Why Your Partner with Asperger's is so Damn Logical and Unemotional.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.   October 14, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AH1I9wdjl0

 

Why Your Neurotypical Spouse is Unhappy or Depressed.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A.  October 12, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLdOxcesdPc

 

Questions from Neurotypicals About Autism Spectrum Disorder in their Partners/Spouses.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A.  September 15, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRfBqH1MZoc

 

Why Pleading, Arguing, and Lecturing Gets You Nowhere: Explanation for Neurotypical Partners.(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. September 14, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiDKzeTobB8

 

Why Your NT Wife is Such a “NAG”: Tips for Men with ASD.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. September 1, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cz9QWhJuEM

 

How to Improve Emotional Intelligence: Affective Education for People on the Autism Spectrum-  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A.  August 1, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGDm_kbvFf4

 

Executive Function Deficits in ASD and How They Negatively Affect Relationships.(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 31, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ugtXNKzy9k

 

Anxiety & the “Negativity Bias” in People on the Autism Spectrum.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 29, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpjB2Vd_Ipg

 

Your NT Wife is Looking to You For Emotional Support.  Where are you? (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.   July 27, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97TY8gRqbts

 

The NT Challenge-Making Sense of Your ASD Partners Way of Thinking, Feeling and Behaving,  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A.   July 26, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtpCJuRoDGU&t=4s

 

Disparate Passions: Why You Are Struggling in a Neurotypical + ASD Marriage.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. July 24, 2020.

 

Why Your NT Partner or Spouse is Upset with You: Message to Men on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. July 17, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hurTYXI1vdw

 

Save Your Relationship: Online Group Therapy for Men on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. July 16, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MukxnT6-6aA

 

Traits of AS and High-Functioning Autism that Often Contribute to Relationship Problems. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten, M.A.  July 7, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-qU2IsYc98

   

Why Your AS or HFA Partner “Drifts Away” From the Relationship Over the Years-(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. June 24, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82U7J9lYT5E

 

Why Some Men with Asperger's and HFA “Fall Out of Love”-Seemingly Overnight.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. May 29, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aLryUSs1Tc

 

Making Sense of Your AS Partner's Hurtful Behavior-(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A.

May 21, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdCnleq9UKE

 

The NT Challenge-Making Sense of Your ASD Partner's Way of Thinking, Feeling and Behaving (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.-July 16, 2020.   

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtpCJuRoDGU

 

Challenges Facing NT Wives Who Are Married to Men on the Autism Spectrum- (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. April 24, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4QgM6eDyuoc

 

Dealing with “Mr. Logical”-Tips for NT Spouses.(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.

April 4, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPxBaOxpkSE

 

Why the Behavior of an Individual with Asperger's or High-Functioning Autism Can Appear Childish. (AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A.  March 3, 2020.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRv0s0880H8

 

When You Suspect Your Spouse Has Asperger's-But He Refuses to Seek a Diagnosis. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. March 17, 2020.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1fZqdJdrNY

 

Why your AS Partner Blames You for All the Relationship Problems-(AdultAspergersChat.com)- Mark Hutten,M.A. March 6, 2020.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xluTrgTll6U

 

Why Your AS Partner Prefers Tasks and Objects Over People and Relationships.   (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. February 21, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ASyqFlxWGa0

 

Your AS Partners Meltdowns ALWAYS Start with Anxiety. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A. February 20, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SEqE4dct5E

 

Cassandra Syndrome and Relationships with Partners on the Autism Spectrum-(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. February 1, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKMqaY38Z5U

 

Why the NT Wife and the AS Husband Have Great Difficulty.(AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten,M.A., January 31, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iwiAuCdveQ

 

Why Your Asperger's Partner Has Difficulty Meeting Your Emotional Needs. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. January 18, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MC9XrjL89PY

 

Why Your Aspergers Partner is So Sensitive to Criticism. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.  January 13, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LNPnhCmbSw

 

WhyYour Asperger's Partner Seems Unable to Understand How You Feel. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. January 11, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-dNIdpJMX4

 

Why the Relationship with Your NT Partner Sucks: Tips for Men with AS. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.  January 8, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUd2D7KjFHE

 

When Your Asperger's Partner “Relationship Needs”  Are Low: Tips for NT's. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. December 17, 2019.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96oW9dBZs1E

 

Challenges Facing Partners Who are Married to Husband's with Asperger's Syndrome-   (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. September 25, 2019.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6znvIndsJ88

 

Aspie Husband Talks About Married Life. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. August 4, 2018. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-7iTtJVN8s

 

Why Some “Neurotypical” Wives are Unhappy in Their Marriages. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. March 28, 2018.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DlvBG5JLaCU

 

Asperger's Traits that Get Misinterpreted as “Inapproriate” Behavior.  (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.  September 20, 2017  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7diduV18N4

 

Living With an Aspergers Partner-e-book and audio instruction. Mark Hutten, M.A.

December 11, 2015

 

Relationships with Partners on the Autism Spectrum. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A.

October 21, 2015.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezVOw-xQ6MM

 

Relationships and Mindblindness with Men with Asperger's. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. April 21, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXSwGBQxW8s

 

Asperger's Men and Marriage Problems. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. April 16, 2014.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQ2E7I4vvo4

  

Obsessions and the Asperger's Mind: Help for People on the Autism Spectrum- (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, M.A. May 31, 2013.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=635HvPE1OyA

 

Living with an Asperger's Partner: The Neurotypical Wife's Grief Cycle. (AdultAspergersChat.com)-Mark Hutten, March 17, 2013.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSQMQ4MgU64

 

Help for Aspergers Couples.  Mark Hutten, M.A.   July 23, 2011.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUA4SXHBUFo

ANNA MOOMIN:

Autism-Relationship Advice You Need to Know. Anna Moomin. July 8, 2019.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCn9Bt5_JNA

 

Dating and Aspie; A Year on!  Anna Moomin.  September 3, 2018.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nYYQc4PoVcs

 

Asperger's Dating and Relationships-Anna Moomin-March 16, 2015.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sigNbcl-pso

OTHER VIDEOS:

Dating Someone with Autism:Important Things to Remember-Video-Special Bridge.
August 9, 2020.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FKhANbwTFY

 

Kirsten Lindsmith talks about Neurologically Mixed Relationships at Love and Autism-Wrong Planet. Love & Autism Conference lecture-October 26, 2016.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7TqYkzGaUU&t=18s

 

How Autism affects our relationship-couples Q&A-Kate Flowers YouTube Video-October 22, 2020.    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QHI1iZ818M

 

Asperger's In Love, From Helplessly Confused to Head Over Heals, PsychCentral-Video. September 1, 2014.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I81AsKfIBMU&t=570s

 

Loving a Partner with Autism. Interview with Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.-Autism Live.
June 22, 2018.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=__ITJrrxvFA

 

“Asperger Love”-An Interview with author Amy Harmon, autismhangout.com. 
March 27, 2013.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3fbHQxx1DwM

 

Autism and Love: Anita & Abraham's Epic Love Story.  Futures Explored Film Studio.  March 10, 2016.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USH3WLFAeuY

 

Why Autism is Sexier Then You Think it Is. Amy Graviano-TEDx Jersey City.
September 28, 2017. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shgy43CxBX8

 

Aspergers Relationships-Love Language (MUST SEE). The Aspie World.
October 30, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZHyOT-yrQY

 

5 Dating Aspergers Dating Tips to Help You! (Are You Making These Mistakes?).  The Aspie World. January 30, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOlT4IqKBoI

 

Aspergers Relationships-How Do You Maintain a Relationship (3 Tips). The Aspie World. August 15, 2019. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNu1SijxCdA

 

Aspergers and Relationships helpful info.  The Aspie World.  February 3, 2016.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tjEZbfLuok

 

Dating Advice for Adults with Autism. CBC News-The National.  January 4, 2016.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgF89DzkgH4

 

How to Help Asperger's Clients in Their Romantic Relationships- Uncommon Practitioners.  February 21, 2020.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fH9CS4RjJ-E

 

Tips for Romantic Relationships with Autistic Partners-Purple Ella. April 26, 2019.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttIkvdu5Lgc&t=1s

 

Autism AND Sexuality/Purple Ella. April 26, 2018.  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=25sUhR-oA0g

 

Autism and Intimacy: The KEY message! Adam Wonders. May 30, 2020.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzjXjarSS88

 

Male Asperger's Sexuality: Is Dating Impossible.  Adam Wonders.  July 2, 2019.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixgV5-OBQXg&t=192s

 

Autistic Wife, Neurotypical Husband-Neurodiverse Relationship Q & A.  Stephanie Bethany. September 5, 2019.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgduXRnLPyo

 

Austic and Neurotypical Relationship Tips -Stephanie Bethany. April 19, 2019.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLhLPIqixoQ

 

Communication: A Necessary Skill to Strengthen or Dissolve a Neurodiverse Relationship by Leslie Sickels, LCSW.  Asperger/Autism Network AANE. June 10, 2019.    htps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwtKfVx56iI&t=80s

 

Viewing Marriage & Long Term Relationships Through An Asperger's Lens presented by Grace Myhill, LICSW and Eva Mendes, MA, LHMC, July 28, 2016.    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fFOMS16JOY0

 

Dating on the Autism Spectrum: A Valentine's Day Chat. Autism Speaks.  February 14, 2018.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBoHUtq9r2E

 

Aspergers in Love; From Helplessly Confused to Head over Heals in Love. Alina Kislenko-PsychCentral. September 1, 2014. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I81AsKfIBMU

 

Stephen Shore- Life with Autism, Music, Marriage, Professorship and Relationships .  International Center for Autism and Research.  March 5, 2014.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmCW5b8YF2s

 

Social and Personal Relationships on the Autism Spectrum Sarah Hendrickx.  National Autism Society-South Hampshire.  May 1, 2019 .
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-Ifwh2QcE8

 

Simon Baron-Cohen: Autism Spectrum Test-Wired 2012. 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYys7rhRcDU

 

Autism Diagnosis Criteria: explained (DSM-5). Yo Samdy Sam. May 8, 2020.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yva4RZW_s0

 

Could YOU Be Autistic? (and not know) Yo Samdy Sam.  October 18, 2019.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ot46-YGUF4Y

 

Could it be Asperger's?-Generation Next. Professor Tony Attwood-
January 25, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuZFThlOiJI

 

How can a wife love a husband who suffers from Asperger Syndrome. Dr. Mike Emlet-September 28, 2011.  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGsC7b0CAWc&list=ULqi89YuKNgyU&index=90

 

What it is like to date a Guy with Asperger's? Part 1: First and second dates. FruitorColor. October 18, 2017.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OhA27tEq8zo

 

What it is like to date a Guy with Asperger's? Part 2: 3rd date and later. FruitorColor.  October 19, 2017.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYkkNf1qlcs

 

Dating Advice for People with Asperger's Syndrome- Lifey Health. 
November 14, 2016. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zofgcBsOLzc

 

Rethinking Neurodiversity, with Tim Goldstein-episode EDB 223- Different Brains. November 1, 2020. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOVhwbXm2uY

 

Love and Autism: Exploring Romance and Neurodiversity with Jennifer Palmiotto-Podcast episode EDB 50 on Different Brains. October 4, 2016. 
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I78a6N1W3Sw

 

Neurodiversity-The Key that Unlocked My World. Elisabeth Wiklander-TedXGoteborg. February 9, 2017.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qvvrme5WIwA

 

Autism and Relationships: Sam Goes Dating. July 26,2016. Attitude.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuKrbmPiJo4

 

High Functioning Autism Aspergers and Relationships.  Adultswithautism. 
November 29, 2011. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mS8jxmZL-dY

 

Active and Passive Touch. Autism Marriage Edition.  Hacking Autism.  May 28, 2019.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-62i0oUVrU

 

How to Do a Wedding with Autism.  Hacking Autism. June 15, 2018.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HCsYwUE7IsE

 

Rudy Simone's 22 Things a Women with Asperger's Syndrome Wants Her Partner to Know.  JKP Videos.  June 28, 2012. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwjNcYemGV0

 

Asperger's Girl-Relationships.  Anja Melissa. June 4, 2016.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=el3HmTVz_yY

 

Autism and Falling in Love.  Autism Live.  December 16, 2014, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpkG4HEJPpU

 
 
 
 
 
 
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